Sunday, July 24, 2005

The Four Aspects of True Love

Love is one of the most confusing of feelings. What some people call "love" may be possessiveness, or simple desire, or some other lesser emotion.

Simple Solution:

There are four elements of true love. Read what this wise teacher has to say, and find out if what you feel is true love, here:

Here are the four aspects of true love.

1. Loving-kindness. Loving-kindness is not only the desire to make someone happy, to bring joy to a beloved person, it is the ability to bring joy and happiness to the person you love, because even if your intention is to love this person, your love might make him or her suffer. To be able to give happiness and joy, you must practice deep looking toward the person you love. Because if you do not understand this person, you cannot love properly.

2. Compassion. This is not only the desire to ease the pain of another person, but the ability to do so. You must practice deep looking in order to gain a good understanding of the nature of the suffering of this person, in order to be able to help him or her to change.

3. Joy If there is no joy in love, it is not true love. If you are suffering all the time, if you cry all the time, and if you make the person you love cry, this is not really love--it is even the opposite. If there is no joy in your love, you can be sure that it is not true love.

4. Freedom. In true love, you attain freedom. When you love, you bring freedom to the person you love. If the opposite is true, it is not true love. You must love in such a way that the person you love feels free, not only outside but also inside. "Dear one, do you have enough space in your heart and all around you?" This is an intelligent question for testing whether your love is something real.

The 10 Most Important Things

LOVE - The Special That Makes You Feel All Warm And Wonderful

RESPECT - Treating Others As Well You Would Like To Be Treated

APPRECIATION - Grateful For All Good Things life Has To Offer

HAPPINESS - The Full Enjoyment Of Each Moment. A Smiling Face

FORGIVENESS - The Ability To Let Things Be Without Anger

SHARING - The Joy Of Giving Without Thought Of Receiving

HONESTY - The Quality Of Always Telling The Truth

INTEGRITY - The Purity Of Doing What's Right, No Matter What

COMPASSION - The Essence Of Feeling Another's Pain, While Easing Their Hurt

PEACE - The Reward For Living

Some Facts

1. Chewing on gum while cutting onions can help a person from stop producing tears. Try it next time you chop onions!!!!!!!!!!

2. Until babies are six months old, they can breathe and swallow at the same time. Indeed convenient!

3. Offered a new pen to write with, 97% of all people will write their own name.

4. Male mosquitoes are vegetarians. Only females bite.

5. The average person's field of vision encompasses a 200-degree wide angle.

6. To find out if a watermelon is ripe, knock it, and if it sounds hollow then it is ripe.

7. Canadians can send letters with personalized postage stamps showing their own photos on each stamp.

8. Babies' eyes do not produce tears until the baby is approximately six to eight weeks old.

9. It snowed in the Sahara Desert in February of 1979.

10. Plants watered with warm water grow larger and more quickly than plants watered with cold water.

11. Wearing headphones for just an hour will increase the bacteria in your ear by 700 times.

12. Grapes explode when you put them in the microwave.

13. Those stars and colours you see when you rub your eyes are called phosphenes.

14. Our eyes are always the same size from birth, but our nose and ears never stop growing.

15. Everyone's tongue print is different, like fingerprints.

16. Contrary to popular belief, a swallowed chewing gum doesn't stay in the gut. It will pass through the system and be excreted.

17. At 40 Centigrade a person loses about 14.4 calories per hour by breathing.

18. There is a hotel in Sweden built entirely out of ice; it is rebuilt every year.

19. Cats, camels and giraffes are the only animals in the world that walk rightfoot, right foot, left foot, left foot, rather than right foot,leftfoot

20. Onions help reduce cholesterol if eaten after a atty meal.

21. The sound you hear when you crack your knuckles is actually the sound of nitrogen gas bubbles bursting.

"I Love You" in 100 Languages

01. Africaans - Eke hat joy life
02. Albanian - Te dual
03. Arabic - Ana behead (to male)
04. Arabic - Ana beehive (to female)
05. Armenian - Yes kea sir men
06. Barbara - Mobil fee
07. Bangle - Aimee tuna key halo ashy
08. Belarusian - Yaw table karamu
09. Biscayan - Nahigugma ako kanimo
10. Bulgarian - Obicham te
11. Cambodian - Soro lahn nhee ah
12. Cantonese Chinese - Ngo oiy ney a
13. Catalan - T'estimo
14. Cheyenne - Ne mohotatse
15. Chichewa - Ndimakukonda
16. Corsican - Ti tengu caru (to male)
17. Creol - Mi aime joy
18. Croatian - Volim te
19. Czech - Miluji te
20. Danish - Jeg Elsker Dig
21. Dutch - Ik hou van joy
22. English - I love you
22. Esperanto - Mi amas vin
23. Estonian - Ma armastan sind
24. Ethiopian - Afgreki'
25. Faroese - Eg elski teg
26. Farsi - Doset daram
27. Filipino - Mahal kita
28. Finnish - Mina rakastan sinua
29. French - Je t'aime, Je t'adore
30. Frisian - Ik hâld fan dy
31. Gaelic - Ta gra agam ort
32. Georgian - Mikvarhar
33. German - Ich liebe dich
34. Greek - S'agapo
35. Gujarati - Hoo thunay prem karoo choo
36. Hiligaynon - Palangga ko ikaw
37. Hawaiian - Aloha wau ia oi
38. Hebrew - Ani ohev otah (to female)
39. Hebrew - Ani ohev et otha (to male)
40. Hiligaynon - Guina higugma ko ikaw
41. Hindi - Hum Tumhe Pyar Karte hae
42. Hmong - Kuv hlub koj
43. Hopi - Nu' umi unangwa'ta
44. Hungarian - Szeretlek
45. Icelandic - Eg elska tig
46. Ilonggo - Palangga ko ikaw
47. Indonesian - Saya cinta padamu
48. Inuit - Negligevapse
49. Irish - Taim i' ngra leat
50. Italian - Ti amo
51. Japanese - Aishiteru
52. Kannada - Naanu ninna preetisuttene
53. Kapampangan - Kaluguran daka
54. Kiswahili - Nakupenda
55. Konkani - Tu magel moga cho
56. Korean - Sarang Heyo
57. Latin - Te amo
58. Latvian - Es tevi miilu
59. Lebanese - Bahibak
60. Lithuanian - Tave myliu
61. Malay - Saya cintakan mu / Aku cinta padamu
62. Malayalam - Njan Ninne Premikunnu
63. Mandarin Chinese - Wo ai ni
64. Marathi - Me tula prem karto
65. Mohawk - Kanbhik
66. Moroccan - Ana moajaba bik
67. Nahuatl - Ni mits neki
68. Navaho - Ayor anosh'ni
69. Norwegian - Jeg Elsker Deg
70. Pandacan - Syota na kita!!
71. Pangasinan - Inaru Taka
72. Papiamento - Mi ta stimabo
73. Persian - Doo-set daaram
74. Pig Latin - Iay ovlay ouyay
75. Polish - Kocham Ciebie
76. Portuguese - Eu te amo
77. Pushto – Ze Ta Sara Meena Kom.
78. 01. Romanian - Te iubesc
79. Russian - Yaw tebya liubliu
80. Scot Gaelic - Tha gra\dh agam ort
81. Serbian - Volim te
82. Setswana - Key a go rata
83. Sign Language - ,\,,/ (represents position of fingers when signing'I Love You')
84. Sindhi - Maa tokhe pyar kendo ahyan
85. Sioux - Techihhila
86. Slovak - Lu`bim ta
87. Slovenian - Ljubim te
88. Spanish - Te quiero / Te amo
89. Swahili - Ninapenda wewe
90. Swedish - Jag alskar dig
91. Swiss-German - Ich lieb Di
92. 01. Tagalog - Mahal kita
93. Taiwanese - Wa ga ei li
94. Tahitian - Ua Here Vau Ia Oe
95. 01. Tamil - Nan unnai kathalikaraen
96. Telugu - Nenu ninnu premistunnanu
97. Thai - Chan rak khun (to male)
98. 01. Thai - Phom rak khun (to female)
99. Turkish - Seni Seviyorum
100. Ukrainian - Yaw tebe karamu
101. Urdu - mai aap say pyaar karta hoo
102. Vietnamese - Anh ye^u em (to female)
103. Vietnamese - Em ye^u anh (to male)
104. Welsh - 'Rwy'n dy garu di
105. Yiddish - Ikh hob dikh
106. Yoruba - Mo ni fee

Why Why Why ???

Why does wet fabric appear darker?

When fabric gets wet, light coming towards it refracts within the water, dispersing the light. In addition, the surface of the water causes incoherent light scattering. The combination of these two effects causes less light to reflect to your eyes and makes the wet fabric appear darker.

Why does water not calm the tongue after eating hot spicy food?

The spices in most of the hot foods that we eat are oily, and, like your elementary school science teacher taught you, oil and water don't mix. In this case, the water just rolls over the oily spices.What can you do to calm your aching tongue? Eat bread. The bread will absorb the oily spices. A second solution is to drink milk. Milk contains a substance called "casein" which will bind to the spices and carry them away. Alcohol also dissolves oily spices.

Why is blue for boys and pink for girls?

In ancient times, it was believed that certain colours could combat the evil spirits that lingered over nurseries. Because blue was associated with the heavenly spirits, boys were clothed in that colour, boys then being considered the most valuable resource to parents. Although baby girls did not have a colour associated with them, they were mostly clothed in black. It was only in the Middle Ages when pink became associated with baby girls.

Why do people kiss under the mistletoe at Christmas?

In ancient myth, when the son of the Norse goddess Frigga was killed by an arrow made of mistletoe and then brought back to life, she blessed the mistletoe and bestowed a kiss on all who passed beneath it. In the 18th century, the legend was adopted as a promise to marry. At Christmas a lady standing under a mistletoe may not refuse a kiss. If she does, she cannot expect to marry the following year. So it is told.

Why are there bunnies and eggs at Easter?

The ancient Anglo-Saxons celebrated the return of spring with a carnival commemorating their goddess of offspring and of springtime, Eostre. The word carnival possibly originated from the Latin ‘carne vale' meaning "flesh, farewell" or "meat, farewell." The offerings were rabbits and coloured eggs, bidding an end to winter.As it happened, the pagan festival of Eostre occurred at the same time of year as the Christian observance of the Resurrection of Christ and it didn't take the Christian missionaries long to convert the Anglo-Saxons when they encountered them in the second century. The offering of rabbits and eggs eventually became the Easter bunny and Easter eggs.

If blood is red, why are veins blue?

Blood is bright red in its oxygenated form and a dark red in deoxygenated form. In simpler terms, it is bright red when it leaves the lungs full of oxygen and dark red when it returns to the lungs for a refill. Veins appear blue because light penetrating the skin is absorbed and reflected in high energy wavelengths back to the eye. Higher energy wavelengths are blue.

Why did Columbus and others try to sail around the world?

You probably know that people native to the Americas are called "Indians" because early explorers like Christopher Columbus thought they had come across the Indian spice islands. Traders were forced to sail westward after the spice route to the East by land was blocked for Europeans by Muslim uprisings.

Why is it called a "loo?"

The British word for toilet, "loo", derives from the French "garde a l'eau!" In medieval Europe people had little conception of hygiene and threw the contents of their chamber pots out the window into the street below. In France the practice was preceded by "garde a l'eau!" ("watch out for the water!"). In England, this phrase was Anglicised, first to "gardy-loo!", then just "loo", and eventually came to mean the toilet/lavatory itself. The American word for toilet, "john", is called after the John Harington mentioned above.

Why is the sky blue?

When sunlight travels through the atmosphere, it collides with gas molecules. These molecules scatter the light. The shorter the wavelength of light, the more it is scattered by the atmosphere. Because it has a shorter wavelength than the other colours, blue light is scattered more, ten times more than red light, for instance. That is why the sky is blue.Why does the setting sun look reddish orange? When the sun is on the horizon, its light takes a longer path through the atmosphere to reach your eyes than when the sun is directly overhead. By the time the light of the setting sun reaches your eyes, most of the blue light has been scattered out. The light you finally see is reddish orange, the colour of white light minus blue.

Why do onions make you cry?

Onions, like other plants, are made of cells. The cells are divided into two sections separated by a membrane. One side of the membrane contains an enzyme which helps chemical processes occur in your body. The other side of the membrane contains molecules that contain sulfur. When you cut an onion, the contents on each side of the membrane mix and cause a chemical reaction. This reaction produces molecules such as ethylsufine which make your eyes water.To prevent crying when you cut an onion, cut it under a running tap of cold water. The sulfur compounds dissolve in water and are rinsed down the sink before they reach your eyes. You can also put the onion in the freezer for ten minutes before you cut it. Cold temperatures slow down the reaction between the enzyme and the sulfur compounds so fewer of the burning molecules will reach your eyes.